Showing posts with label answered prayers. Show all posts
Showing posts with label answered prayers. Show all posts

Wednesday, February 12, 2025

Miracles in my Life- Answered Prayers for the Sick

 "Therefore confess your sins to each other and pray for each other so that you may be healed.  The prayer of a righteous man is powerful and effective." (James 5:16)

"If you remain in me and my words remain in you, ask whatever you wish , and it will be given to you." (John 15:7) 

I wanted to share a few more vignettes of answered prayer from my family and then a few from the church.  

John's asthma attack- when John was one and a half, he had a pretty bad fever and a hard time breathing.  He had asthma but we didn't know it.  On the night his fever was so high, we brought him into our bed (we never did this- my wife, Kay, and I had a rule about not allowing children in bed with us) and gave him children's Tylenol.  We had been praying for him, but we especially prayed then.  An hour or less after he was in bed with us- he sat up and pointed to what he called "Rebekah" (his sister 3 years older than he was).  Kay and I both woke up.  I saw a light- like a halo.  Kay saw a person that she described as an angel.  We both felt God was waking us up to do something.  Kay took John to the hospital ER while I stayed with the other two children.  Kay called back to say his fever was very high but had gone down with medicine.  He also had very, very low oxygen- to a dangerous level.  The doctor and the nurse agreed that if we had waited much longer (an hour even), he would have had brain damage.  We all three consider this an answer to prayer.  He was officially diagnosed with asthma (probably aggravated by his peanut allergy along with some allergens in that area.  For the next several years John used an inhaler.  Now he has outgrown his asthma (except when he has eaten or smelled peanuts).  

Sarah's bee problem.  In the mountains around Asheville there were a lot of yellow jacket wasps.  Sarah was stung  and her arm and face swelled.  She had a mile anaphylactic reaction to the yellow jacket's sting.  The doctor said it would get worse and was dangerous- and to always have an epinephrine injector with her.  
We had an old pop up camper.  It was heavy and often our station wagon would overheat trying to pull it up the mountains when we went camping.  One time we were going up the mountains camping and the car overheated.  We pulled over on the emergency lane- the car cut off , and we waited for the car radiator to cool down.   A yellow jacket got inside the car.  Then another.  There was nothing we could do- nowhere to go.  It particularly started attacking Sarah.  It landed on her arm- it stung her.  We prayed and Sarah was fine. 
Another time Sarah was going in college on a mission trip to Haiti.  After she arrived they realized she had forgotten her epi-pen and the mission director was going to send her home at our expense.  Nowhere on the island was there any epi-pens- and there were lots of yellow jackets.  We all prayed (and though she was a little isolated) she was fine.  

Over the years, I have seen many obvious answered prayers- and some unanswered.  If every prayer was answered, we would yawn at the power of God and expect it.  But here are a couple.  I am going by my memory on these, and some of the details may be off a little.  

Ruth Palassis- this was in the Lake Murray Presbyterian Church.  Ruth had taught with my wife, Kay.  She was a well-loved sweet person with faith.  She had terrible headaches and was diagnosed with "Glioblastoma" a malignant fast-growing brain tumor.  This is the kind of cancer that Teddy Kennedy and John McCain died of.  The doctor and family sent her to Duke University Hospital in Durham, NC. Teddy Kennedy also went there a year or two after her.  They performed major brain surgery on her.  She was in the hospital for several months.  The average survival rate for patients with surgery is 15-18 months with only 5-7% surviving more than five years.  Ruth had an amazing positive attitude and immersed herself in prayer.  After her surgery they did some radiation.  She did not lose any major body function, but she lost some vocabulary memory and had to re-learn to speak.  She survived 15 years.  The doctors were astonished.  She was astonished.  They asked her to talk to other glioblastoma patients to encourage them.  She did and she always encouraged them to pray and think positively about beating this.  She did have three gamma knife surgeries to keep the tumor at bay.  They could not get the full tumor for it went down into the brain stem.  They had to keep going in and cutting it back.  They put a removable plate on her skull to go in.  But eventually they thought the gamma knife got it all, and for several years no surgery was necessary.  She died later of skin cancer on the neck.  They told her it was easily treated compared to the glioblastoma- but she was tired of fighting  (in her late 70s) and just wanted it to take its course (she had also had breast cancer years before).  She was at peace with her Lord and was ready to go meet him in heaven.  But everyone- doctors, Ruth, her husband Jim and I believed this was a true answer to prayer.  

Mary LaFond.  Mary was a retired nurse.  She was a deacon in our church and was full of compassion.  John had co-owned a nuclear engineering business and worked closely with the government.  Mary had small seizures.  She came forward to a service for the anointing with oil and prayer.  Mary had a major seizure and was in ICU in Lexington Medical Center for six months plus.  The doctors had suggested pulling the plug.  There was no major brain activity.  It was like the seizure had eaten up a part of her brain.  The church prayed.  The doctors suggested taking her off the ventilator.  They did.  But to everyone's surprise- including mine- she survived.  But then she not only survived.  She at first couldn't talk much- but she gained her ability to talk- then to walk back. She has lived another 12 years after all of this and is in her 80s now in a retirement home.  

Saturday, March 8, 2014

3-9-14- Jesus' Strange Love

1Now a man named Lazarus was sick. He was from Bethany, the village of Mary and her sister Martha.2(This Mary, whose brother Lazarus now lay sick, was the same one who poured perfume on the Lord and wiped his feet with her hair.) 3So the sisters sent word to Jesus, “Lord, the one you love is sick.”
4When he heard this, Jesus said, “This sickness will not end in death. No, it is for God’s glory so that God’s Son may be glorified through it.” 5Now Jesus loved Martha and her sister and Lazarus. 6So when he heard that Lazarus was sick, he stayed where he was two more days, 7and then he said to his disciples, “Let us go back to Judea.”
8“But Rabbi,” they said, “a short while ago the Jews there tried to stone you, and yet you are going back?”
9Jesus answered, “Are there not twelve hours of daylight? Anyone who walks in the daytime will not stumble, for they see by this world’s light. 10It is when a person walks at night that they stumble, for they have no light.”
11After he had said this, he went on to tell them, “Our friend Lazarus has fallen asleep; but I am going there to wake him up.”
12His disciples replied, “Lord, if he sleeps, he will get better.” 13Jesus had been speaking of his death, but his disciples thought he meant natural sleep.
14So then he told them plainly, “Lazarus is dead, 15and for your sake I am glad I was not there, so that you may believe. But let us go to him.”
16Then Thomas (also known as Didymusa ) said to the rest of the disciples, “Let us also go, that we may die with him.”  (John 11:1-16)

Thoughts: Lazarus, brother to Mary and Martha, and a good friend of Jesus, was sick.  Later, when Jesus wept at the tomb, the response of the observers was, "See how he loved him."  Jesus was willing to go back to Judea even though it would be his last trip there and would end in his death.  The disciples, especially Thomas- the doubter, thought it would lead to his death and they were right.  Jesus was not willing to hide his light for fear of the darkness, and we should not be afraid to hide ours.  The world will tell us not to pray in public, not to say "Jesus" at the end of our prayers- lest we offend someone.  The world will tell us to hide our light under a bushel so that we can live comfortably in the darkness.  Jesus was not afraid to say who He was and to go to the aid of someone though it meant His death.
      John contrasts Jesus' love with His waiting.  Verse 5 affirms Jesus loves the three siblings and the next verse says,  "So he waited until he was dead."  It is this word "So" (oun in the Greek which means "now therefore" or "accordingly so") that is so very strange.  Jesus loved Lazarus and Lazarus was sick... so he delayed!  Usually when someone is in pain or sick we want the doctor to hurry up.  But Jesus knew God's plan and that "this sickness would not end in death" (vs. 4) even though he knew Lazarus was dead (vs 11, 14).  The ultimate showdown with those who wanted Jesus and His Gospel silenced and dead was about to occur.  Jesus encouraged his disciples by raising Lazarus, and then He was raised as an encouragement to us all.  God sometimes delays answering our prayers so that His greater purposes would be achieved.  We wish he would hurry up and help the sick, save the lost, bring heaven to earth.  But God knows the full cost of hurrying.  If Jesus had hurried he could have (as both Martha and Mary pointed out later) kept Lazarus from dying, but that would not be nearly as inspiring as raising Lazarus from the dead.  God may be telling you "wait" in answer to your prayers.  Trust His timing and trust Him. 

Prayer: Lord, help me to wait on you even in pain and death.  

(Map showing Bethany.  Later Jesus would go from Bethany to the Mount of Olives and enter Jerusalem through the Golden Gate- which is the gate the Messiah was prophesied to enter.  The crowd that saw Him raise Lazarus became the crowd that put palm branches before Him on Palm Sunday proclaiming Him King.)