Monday, March 24, 2025

The Signature of God- found in a seeming imperfection


This was a small homily I gave at the wedding of Laura Hudson and Brendon Dasher. 


“Unless the Lord builds the house, the builders labor in vain. Unless the Lord watches over the city, the guards stand watch in vain.”
Psalms 127:1


 A little girl was touring some magnificent homes with her grandfather.  One was a beautiful sandstone with an intriguing design.  But she saw a bright red tile- seemingly out of place in the corner of the house. She thought it weird that such a seemingly perfect house would have such an imperfection. She asked her grandfather about it. He said it was no flaw, but the signature of the famous architect Frank Lloyd Wright who put a red tile with his signature on many works he was pleased with. It was not an imperfection at all, but really part of the identity of the home.  

Laura and Brendon you are fearfully and wonderfully made. Today you are remade as the two of you become one. You may look at something in you or in the other and think it is a flaw, but in fact it is GOD’s signature- his thumbprint if you will. The crosses you face- wound you, shape you, but also identify you- as the nail and spear marks identified Jesus to Thomas and others.  You both have been through so much already, and you are vowing to go through more together. You have already persevered until this moment. Those events are God’s signature on your life. Do not expect some kind of artificial perfection from each other. But we are not in heaven yet- but we hopefully are growing in grace, in forgiveness, and looking forward to that perfect place where we are made perfect.  Yet today we are perfectly imperfect.  It is the imperfections that make you beautiful. God, the potter is reshaping you like clay in His hands- molding these imperfections in you and now shaping you together.  In some ways your cross is unique.  In some ways your cross is a way God identifies you.  

This is such a beautiful day- great temperature, great venue, no rain.  But you could look at this and say- if it only wasn't so windy then my hair wouldn't be blowing- or the pollen is a bit much.  You can always look at the black dot on the white board- or the red tile on the beautiful house- and think it is not perfect.  It isn't, but it is perfect for you.  This day is perfect for you- Perfectly imperfect- but it is your day.  This is the day that the Lord has made- let us rejoice and be glad in it.  

 Find peace in who you are and God’s call on your lives as individuals and now as two who have become one. Unless the Lord builds the house, they labor in vain who build it. He has brought you together in the right time and way. All of us will be looking to see how His beautiful builders’ signature will be made manifest in you. Today we are sending you off on your perfect imperfect journey with a prayer for grace and peace made evident in your love for each other and God’s sustaining love for you.

Lord, help me to see my crosses, my sufferings, even my failures- as something that has been given to me to shape me, mold me, and even make me who I am.  Give me the grace to bear my crosses well- and help my partner in life to also bear up under my crosses.  Lord, love is patient, kind, endures all things- make me an instrument of your love which is the greatest gift.  Lord, build the house of my marriage with your grace.  



Wednesday, March 12, 2025

Keeping our Identity in Eternity

 Do we keep our soul in heaven?  Is there any evidence of a soul on earth?  

Descartes and others trying to identify the organ of the body that the soul resides in.  In the ancient world they talked about "Loving you from the kidneys"  Or "Heart and soul."  Some pointed to the pituitary gland.  Others the hypothalmus.  Some leading neurologists have pointed to the mind beyond the brain.  

Some say evidence of the soul is found in self-awareness or conscience or even mindfulness.  I like to think I know I am the same person I was when I was a baby- though my body has changed.  We gain and lose millions of cells each day- but there is a central part of us that keeps going.  Perhaps the part that keeps going is our soul?  

Scripture points to the idea that we are identified as persons in heaven.  In some religions (pantheism and even some panentheism), you become a part of the cosmic soul or "one with the universe" after you die.  In such a belief system you lose your identity- which is the point for some- to become "one".  Some of these systems of belief say that your identity is an illusion (maya).  

But there are some evidences of soul- as identity continuation given in the scriptures.  In the Bible there is little if any thought of just merging into one being with God.  God is "holy other" and is to be worshiped into eternity- not merged into in eternity.  Yet, in heaven we are brought closer- but separately into the presence of God.  In heaven our sins do not separate us from God's pleasure and our sinful desires are stopped (in part because our bodily pleasures are stopped). 

In the Old Testament (briefly)- Samuel was called back from the dead to Saul (1 Samuel 28).  Saul identified Samuel (28:14,15).  David's comments on his  child's death was "I will go to him, but he will not return to me."  He did not say I will join him in his place or his soul, but "I" and "Him".  The whole concept of soul "nephesh" is an identity- that God breathes into us (Genesis 2:7).  The great words of Job say, "I know that my redeemer lives and that in the end he will stand upon the earth and after my skin has been destroyed, yet in my flesh I will see God; I myself will see Him with my own eyes--I and not another." (19:25,26).  

There are many passages in the New Testament about the individual human soul living forever.  
The Transfiguration has Moses and Elijah as identifiable individuals coming down to meet with Jesus.  
In Luke 16:19-31 (the parable of the poor-Lazarus and rich man-Dives) it speaks of the poor man going to "Abraham's side" (22).  The rich man was identifiable in hell (32) and looked up and identified Lazarus  and Abraham (23).  He had a conversation with Abraham.  Certainly this implies identity in heaven.  In Revelation the souls of the martyrs are identifiable and Jesus (the Lamb who was slain) was also identifiable.  But the bigger evidence is the resurrection of the body that we say we believe in the Apostles Creed.  The phrase, "I believe in the resurrection of the body" means the ongoing personality or identity of the soul.  Jesus rose from the dead and was identifiable.  When he died, individuals rose from the dead (also think Lazarus, Jairus' daughter, Widow of Nain's son- all of whom kept their identity).  

You don't have to believe me.  But if you want to believe the scriptures- especially the New Testament, then there is clear evidence there of seeing and being with individuals in heaven.  

In addition, Near Death Experiences also confirm seeing people as individuals in heaven.  These experiences are becoming more and more identifiable with the spread of information on the internet and as people come out about their experience.   Lee Stroble's book and movie "The Case for Heaven" about it is a nice summary.  Most of the thousands of accounts have people seeing individuals on the other side.  This is not just a wishful "now they are united again" kind of thing- though that wish is not in itself necessarily wrong.  


Billy Graham talked about his mother's death when she said she saw dead relatives on the other side.  When my mother died in 2001, she spoke to her sister who had died in the 1970s, saying, "I'm coming as soon as I can" (over and over).  Hospice used to talk about one of the stages of being near death is talking to people on the other side more and more.  Hopefully we can get comfort in the fact that we go on- and what we do is valuable- and who we are is valuable for eternity.  The Bible seems to indicate two things go on forever from this earthly life- the Word of God and human souls.  


Prayer: Lord, help me to value my soul- who I am- because you value me.  Help me to have hope into eternity.  






Keeping Our Identity- Or...Don't Lose Your Soul

 Identity is a big deal in our day- but it has always been that way.  
In the West in the 60s and 70s people talked about trying "to find myself."  Peter Jenkins has a great book about walking across America trying to find himself.  
In older times, people talked about being "lost."  Not lost physically, or emotionally, or socially, but spiritually.  Tolkien reminds us that "not all who wander are lost."  Yet, many who wander are also wondering and seeking for an answer to life and to why they are here and who they are.  

Certainly the Bible gives an answer to who we are and why we are.   We are all valuable and loved (according to the scriptures).  We are not haphazard accidents of the universe, but made by a loving Creator.  Scripture tells us we are made in His image.  That alone makes us valuable and Genesis infers that means God cares for us and asks us at least not to kill each other- but also to respect (Jesus said anyone who says "you fool" has already committed murder in their heart- Mt. 5:22).  We are valuable also because God loves us.  We are the object of his love- the apple of his eye (Ps. 17:8; Prov. 7:2; Zech. 2:8).   If God, as our father, siblings all are we- so we should love one another- our neighbor as ourselves.  Christ also died for us out of love (1 Cor. 6:20, 7:23).  If we appreciate His infinite-worth-sacrifice- the price of a life and a person is invaluable.   Therefore we are invaluable.  So: 1) His image; 2) His love; 3) His sacrifice means we are loved- along with "The Bible tells me so." 
    In our baptism, we are identified- given a name- and claimed as a part of His family.  We are therefore called to remember who we are and whose we are. For Christians, we are all given special gifts, put in a special place at a certain time (Esther 4:14; Acts 17:26) to answer God's specific call (vocation) upon our lives. Our main goal is to glorify God and enjoy God forever.  This is everyone's general calling.  

Sometimes we can get distracted by stuff, by desires, by even good things (or misplaced loves).  Not all that/who we love is good just because we love it/them.  Jesus reminds us "what good is to gain the whole world and lose your soul?" (Mark 8:36).  It is important to keep or fix our eyes on Jesus- the prize.  

So don't forget who you are and whose you are.  We are kept by God (Nbrs 6; salm 121).  This not only means we are protected by God- that we don't get destroyed.  It also means our identity or soul will not get destroyed.  God's love for us (in general but also as a particular person) never fades or disappears.  My next blog is about how our identity or soul goes on into eternity...


Prayer: Thank you that you have given me a reason to be and a reason to invest myself in you.  Thank you that though all my earthly causes will crumble, my eternal value never does.  Give me the grace to find not only my value but the value of others in you.  




  

Tuesday, March 4, 2025

Staying on the Way Home

 Video for the sermon preached at Eastminster Presbyterian 3/3/25 James 5, "Staying on the Way Home" 

https://eastminsterpres.org/sermons/staying-on-the-way-home/

“Staying on the Way Home”  James 5:7-11, 18-20;  3-2-25 at Eastminster Ben Sloan Thank you to the 200. Mission trip signup.
Sometimes a little ADHD and sometimes a little sin distracts me from what is really important.  In our passage in James it really is speaking of the need to stay on the right path- the right way to get back home to the presence of God in heaven- our true home.
There used to be a saying, “There’s an APP for that.”  Well if you could summarize the things that are said over and over in James 5 they correspond to APP- Appearing- 3x he speaks of the importance of looking for the appearing of Christ; Patience- 3x he speaks of the need to be patient; and Perseverance (2x it speaks of this). 
Last September a man beached his boat on an island near Beaufort with his wife and two dogs who didn’t have a cell phone.  The boat drifted away- the man swam after the boat.  He was in the water for seven hours.  After awhile he was more concerned for his safety than the boat- and was looking on the horizon for any help.  He was rescued by a Good Samaritan who called the Coast guard who picked up his wife and dogs.  Now if you were stranded in the water for 7 hours- would you be uncaring about the appearing of a rescue ship?  Would you just yawn as they went away?  James tells us that we are like that person stranded in the water.  Ever felt that way?  We should long for Jesus to come to us and in the meantime don’t give up- have patience and persevere.  Let’s pray and then let me read this focus passage. 

John Arndt lived in Swannanoa.  He didn’t know most of his neighbors.  But on 9/26 four months of rain came pouring in in three hours and the river rose 21 feet in three hours.  John got his kayak, persevered through the strong current and paddled over to some neighbors who were stranded on their roof with the water still rising. Can you imagine being stranded on your roof longing and looking and crying for help?  Some of you were there in 2015.  John brought them one by one to safety.  Today, John says these neighbors who once didn’t know each other are “pretty tight.”  Today they are rebuilding their homes.  We should long for Jesus to come help us- as those people stuck on their roof were longing to be rescued.  While we are longing- we should not give up but have patience and perseverance. 
        Today is Transfiguration Sunday.  Transfiguration was a major turning point in Jesus’ earthly ministry.  He was getting ready to go to Jerusalem to die.  He knew it.  The Father gave Jesus some encouragement by letting Moses (representing the Law) and Elijah (representing the prophets) appear to Jesus as well as Peter, James, and John.  Jewish tradition had that both Moses and Elijah would come when the Messiah comes again. In Revelation 11 it speaks of these two witnesses appearing too.  I have often wondered- how did they knew it was Moses and Elijah?  There’s no record they told them.  They didn’t have nametags on- “Hi- I’m Elijah.”  They just knew it.  But the transfiguration also points to the Christian idea that we keep our identity and personality after death- we don’t become a part of some cosmic blob.  When Jesus appeared at the resurrection they also knew him- though as he told Thomas- his identity was confirmed by the spear and nail marks.  James tells us we should long for his coming- his appearing- his presence.  Jesus came.  Jesus comes. And Jesus will come again.  He comes to us today to help us have patience and perseverance to stay on the way home.  You know my grandkids live away from me- but still in SC.  I love to see them, but I don’t get to see them every day.  But between my appearing, I find ways to communicate- I write cards, I sometimes call- or one of them called me, or I Facetime them.   We don’t see Jesus physically every day but He promises to come to us- where two or three are gathered together in my name- there am I in the midst of them (Mt. 18:20).  He promises to come to us when we help the poor- “as much as you did it to the least of these- you did it for me.”  He promises to come when we share our faith “Go into all the world and preach the gospel- and lo I am with you always even to the uttermost part of the earth.”  He promises to come to us in communion- “This is my body- my blood.”  His real presence is there.  And then there is the promise that at the end of history which we are a lot closer than James was when he wrote these words.  2 Timothy 4:8 says “Now there is in store for me the crown of righteousness, which the Lord, the righteous Judge will award to me on that day- and not only to me BUT ALSO TO ALL WHO HAVE LONGED FOR HIS APPEARING.”  The next to last verse of the Bible says, “Amen- Maranatha- come Lord Jesus.”  There are many I would like to see when God calls me home- but the number one person is my Lord Jesus who gave himself for me and for you.  You know, last summer my air conditioning was acting up and I had to get a new one.  You know what?  We called that HVAC person several times to find out when the equipment came in, when they would be here, and how long it would take.  I was longing for his appearing in the midst of my discomfort.  In this world, right now, there is a lot of discomfort.  We long for heaven when there are no more tears, no more death, mourning, crying or pain.  Martin Luther was deeply aware that Christ could come back at any time.  Someone asked him, “If you knew Christ is coming back tomorrow, what would you do today.”  He answered I will do what I am called to do and plant seeds in my garden.  Be patient- persevere- listen to your calling. 
         I am going to wrap patience and perseverance together.  Jesus said in this world we will have trouble.  Some people seem to believe that if Jesus really came to earth- he should have healed everyone and brought the kingdom right then.  If he did- then there wouldn’t have been you and me.  Maybe he delayed to give us a chance to be born and to join Him in the kingdom.  I will tell you, Christians in other cultures look at us and wonder what the heck is going on in the church in America.  Douglass and Brad have talked about the rise in nones and dones.  We are the richest country in the history of the world.  We live longer than our ancestors did.  In my grandfather’s generation- the average longevity was 45 now it is almost 77.  We live longer- we have developed washing ma­­­chines, dishwashers, running clean water, toilets in our houses- we take all this for granted.  We have microwaves, fast air fryers for our food; instant communication and expect instant solutions with texts, X, and AI.  , And then we take God for granted.  In the 1830s it took 8 hours to develop a photograph, and there were only a few who could.  In the 60s you had the one minute poloroid.  Today everyone has a phone and digital pictures are better and more common.  But in our instant world, we tend to lose patience.  That’s okay with pictures- but it is not okay to lose patience with your spouse, or your kids, or your parents, or your friends, or your God.  All the things for our comfort and all these things that extend our lives a little bit- do not last forever.  Even if we live to 100 we still have to face our Maker.  One hundred years in the face of eternity is nothing.  Other Christians are wondering why we don’t have more patience with God- with our situation- with ourselves- or with other people.  How  do you learn patience and perseverance?  You face tough times.  James starts his book off saying, “Be patient in various trials knowing that the trying of your faith produces perseverance.”  Despite all our complex instantaneous technology- we still have human trials.   How many give up on their friends? 68% according to a Yougov survey have given up on a friend- with 8% giving up on having any friends- they report having no close friends at all.  You have a great friend in Jesus.  Do not betray him as Judas did; deny him as Peter did; or run away from him when tough times come like all the 12 did.  Many have divorced God- and it is worse than a marital divorce.  They have left God for someone else- maybe pride, maybe to do their own thing ethically, Maybe they want to be their own god- but it won’t work.  We need to stay on the way home- and we do that by longing for his appearing, by having patience and perseverance.   

      Andrea Palpant Dilley was the daughter of missionaries and went to a Presbyterian church.  Yet as a young adult she scraped off her Christian sticker on her car and dropped out- with her doubts- and she said she was “just tired of trying to be good.”  She went through years of vapid hard drinking, fooling around with older men- basically classic rebellion against God and faith.  But one day she came back home to church.  She said she came back not because all of her doubts were solved or that church is so much more entertaining now- but knowing her doubt belongs in the church and that God helps her unbelief.  Once a man told Jesus, “I believe, help my unbelief.”  Flannery O’Conner says this is the foundational prayer.  The writer and theologian Fredrick Buechner said, “Faith is homsickness.”  C. S. Lewis called it “Sehnsucht” a longing-yearning-craving for a far-off country. 

Jesus always is looking for us to come back home to Him- as the Father looked for the Prodigal to come back.  You are always welcome back. 
The table is set for you to commune with God.  Communion is a way we renew our faith- that we recognize our need to come back to God.